We’ve all grown up listening to fairy tales about wicked stepmothers. Then there are those not so nice mother-in-law jokes. Don’t forget about people sarcastically saying they must be adopted whenever they can’t relate to their parents. Bonus moms often end up with an undeserved bad reputation.
Whether adoptive mom, stepmom, or mother-in-law, they play second fiddle, even though these moms are pinch hitters. Sometimes it might even be these bonus moms we turn to instead of our biological moms. Maybe you are lucky to have several extra moms in your life. Make sure you let them know how important they are to you with a special bonus mom gift.
1. Book a Trip Together
Best bonus mom gifts
Let her know you spend time with her not because you have to, but because you want to. Plan a fun trip together. Whether a vacation of a lifetime or just a local staycation, you can’t put a price tag on quality time.
If you already have a place in mind, you can get her a travel guide for the destination. Then spend time together mapping out your trip, deciding where to stay, and figuring out what sights to experience. Make sure to get the most recent travel guides, as much information has changed since the pandemic.
Make organizing her luggage easier by giving her some packing cubes.
2. Bath Tray
Relaxing gifts for bonus mom
Being a mom is one of the toughest jobs. Think about it. They work 24/7, 365 days a year, with no holidays or sick days! Carving out a few moments of solitude here and there is a necessity. Make those moments count by giving her a bath tray so she can have her music, a good book, and a glass of wine at her fingertips.
Add to her comfort with a bath pillow so she doesn’t hurt her neck.
You can pamper her further with bath supplies for relaxation, such as bath bombs or salts.
3. Cocktail or Food Class
Perfect gift for a bonus mom
Learn to make dumplings, create classic cocktails, or discover the secrets of chocolate and coffee pairing. Just make sure to buy two experiences so you can enjoy this together.
Or try an online craft experience. If you don’t live closeby, you can still experience these together since they are online.
For a real treat you may want to get her a subscription to Masterclass. With a subscription she can learn new hobbies such as screenwriting, guitar playing, or cooking from experts, all from home. These are a great way for her to carve out time for herself.
4. 3D Crystal Photo
Mother’s Day gifts for bonus mom
A 3D photo of the two of you together will make an imprint on her heart. This is also a great gift to give from a biological mom to show you appreciate her being a part of your child’s life.
If you live far apart a smart frame will keep her up to date on your latest adventures. She will feel as if she is right there with you.
A canvas print also makes a great keepsake. It is not just a photo, but a piece of artwork. Choose a photo of the two of you together or one of your children. Then enclose a note saying how you feel confident as a parent because you had her as an example.
5. Special Wine Glass
Bonus mom gifts she’ll love
Remind her what she means to you with a bonus mom wine glass. She will get a warm feeling inside with each sip, that is not just from the wine!
Take the gift to the next level. You can have a custom wine label made to put on a bottle of wine, letting her know how important she is to you.
Add some elegance to her life with a fancy wine decanter.
6. Custom Song
Bonus mom Christmas gifts
Have you ever stood in the store for what seems like forever, trying to find a card to express your exact feelings? Instead, have your feelings put into words with a song.The lyrics and music are composed and delivered in an audio file so she can hear your heartfelt emotions whenever she wants.
Or write a poem which you can have printed for her to display..
Do you have an inspirational song that reminds you of her? Have a custom song frame created, complete with a photo and theme song to let her know how important she is.
7. Gratitude Coupons
Bonus mom gift ideas from kids
Actions speak louder than words. Coupon books are a great way for kids to show appreciation. They can come up with their own ideas for extra chores around the house or treats such as breakfast in bed. Of course, younger ones will need help to fill in the coupons and possibly to carry them out. It’s the thought that counts. This book has a love theme.
You can also get a specific coupon book for parents. Teens with younger siblings might want to give a booklet of babysitting coupons.
8. Thank You Bracelet
More bonus mom Mother’s Day gifts
Jewelry has traditionally been a way to someone’s heart. An engraved bracelet with a sincere message demonstrates your appreciation of her when words alone can’t express how you feel.
You can also buy a bonus mom pendant made specifically for bonus moms. Or have a special photo placed in a locket to create your own bonus mom necklace.
9. Pasta Meal Basket
Bonus mom gifts from a biological mom
You know how busy moms are. You are one! Say I appreciate you with one of these handy pasta meal baskets. They contain the ingredients for an easy dinner so she has more time doing mom stuff like helping with homework or reading bedtime stories.
To help with weekend entertainment, give a movie night gift basket. However, you may want to stay away from the ones containing too many sweets. She may mistake your appreciation for animosity if you get the kids sugared up on her watch!
After she puts the kids to bed a wine country gift basket, along with some wine, will help her unwind so she can be ready for the next day.
10. Funny Candle
Gifts for bonus mom, just because
Growing up we can all put our parents through torture. Yet, they still stand by us. As a funny way to say sorry and thanks, this candle sums it up.
The best way to say I love you is with a hug, but sometimes that isn’t practical. Instead you can send her a hug in a jar candle to express your feelings.
You can also have a personalized message of thanks written on the label of a candle.
11. Heart Shaped Cookies
Homemade bonus mom gift ideas
Homemade heart shaped cookies are a great way to let your bonus mom know you appreciate them. Just buy some cookie cutters and mix up some cookie dough. This is a great way for kids to give back, with the help of an adult of course. If you are an adult, you may want to try your hand at adding some fancy decorations.
What if you don’t want to mess with rolling out cookie dough? Muffins are an easy baking project. Even young kids can make them! All you need is a heart shaped muffin tin, ingredients, and a recipe. Choose healthy recipes for breakfast or sweeter ones for an indulgence later in the day.
You can help your kids show gratitude for their bonus mom by helping cook breakfast with a heart shaped waffle iron.
12. Love Lamp
Bonus mom gifts across the miles
Show your bonus mom they are on your mind even though you are miles apart with a set of touch lamps. When you touch yours, hers will glow, letting her know she is on your mind. There is no better gift than letting mom know how often you are thinking of her.
Or send her a touch bracelet. When you touch yours, hers will vibrate, letting her know she is in your thoughts.
Another cool gift to keep connected is a heart message box. You can send photos or drawings through an app and they will appear in the box.
13. Cozy Inspirational Blanket
Sentimental gifts for bonus mom
Sometimes we all need a bit of reassurance. Let her know you are grateful to have her in your life with a bonus mom blanket that puts your thoughts on fleece.
Being a mom is hard, but being a non-biological mom is harder. Daily affirmation cards will help her stay calm and motivated on trying days.
Bonus mom t-shirts are visual ways to show pride in her accomplishments as a mom.
14. Thank You Kisses
Thank you to my bonus mom
Candy kisses aren’t just for romantic partners, they can be for moms too! Show her some love with kisses that say thanks! The red and green wrapped kisses can be tucked in her stocking for tiny bonus mom Christmas gifts.
You can also get thank you M&Ms. If you want to give these as a bonus mom Valentines gift, you can choose the shades of pink variety.
Of course a bouquet of flowers always says I love you.
15. Best Selling Novel
Gifts for a bonus mom who likes to read
Does she like to curl up with a good book? Get her a best seller. Make sure you read it too. Then you can discuss it together over some hot cocoa. It will be like having your own book club.
Serve the hot cocoa in a hug mug. Then she will know she is on your mind even when you can’t be together.
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